2019-06-29

TEMPTATIONS X EXAMINATIONS

From the desk of Mrs. Baby Abraham . . . . . .






  TEMPTATIONS   X   EXAMINATIONS



Now God and Gen-tile have interchanged positions and “ tile “ is profusely practiced incessantly, even in high handed ways . Meanings, inner meaning, spiritual meaning , root meaning is all thrown away by religious people !
What a lack of sensitivity . All worthy behavioural patterns have been
obliterated !!!!!!!  There is no fear or respect for life. Can we regain or gain anew this ? Should a husband tempt his own wife ????? Should a father tempt his own son or daughter ????? This is lack of knowledge or pretending  not to know that true relationship  is .  Where can any one , any child find security other than their OWN HOME  . We have to ensure that ourselves, no neighbour can do it , neither should we allow it .  How can one forget his own responsibility ???
Is the democratically elected government responsible for “ family peace “ Just as the broken water line in  Delhi , now all citizens of republic are looking up to the elected government  to repair a drinking water tap !!. If there is no metro water , we can understand . Same thing is happening with the modern adults. Family divided in itself, for what reason, only outsiders know !!.

                 Examinations are a pre requisite for assessing the diseases .
It revels the knowledge of the students .
It shows the strength and durability of bridges, buildings, dams, railway tracks , tunnels etc
Examination assesses and determine the qualities and weaknesses , the benefits , and uses .

Has anyone ever achieved by temptation , any good profitable thing to both sides .
One side may profit but the other side will lament . 



WATER WOES OF DELHI

From the desk of Mrs. Baby Abraham . . . . . .





WATER WOES OF DELHI

Here they have clean running water for 24 hours all through the year.
It not lack of water. It is not polluted water.
 It is not intermittent supply of water.
It is only a broken pipe.

Solution lies in how a broken water line can be restored .
The solution is simple. Just call a plumber. Buy some material such as coupling, bend, junction box , pipe line of 10 – 15 feet or so for extension of the line  to fix it on the wall nearby .
Once the line is fixed on the wall, add 6 or 10 or 15 taps from that point on either side . All the people can collect water simultaneously instead of standing in queues for hours . women have so much work to do. men have so much work to  do. Children have so much to study. Who has got time to stand in queues for
 this “ living water “ which sustains all people and animals and vegetation .

Alternatively if space allows, keep 3-5 large or medium poly… vessels we use as water tanks . Keep 10 or more taps all around so that the collection of water is made easy. Any way people stand there till they get water. Why not reduce the time by adding more taps to the water tank. A non return valve can prevent overflow of excess water.
No wastage of water .
These “ Little things “ make the life of the people who do not have running water in their houses .
    Do we need netas  and leaders to bring a plumber for a
leaking pipe ?We need their help to BRING water to the metro.
But fixation of a tap  cost Rs. 100 maximum.  !!  Use the time of netas for greater things which are not possible individually. That way we can achieve greater important things in short period of time .
Approach them for higher and more demanding problems and projects so that they also will  feel that their  designation  can successfully solve much grave problems of the community whom they represent .
   If the people contribute for the repair and modification of the broken pipe line, each family may have to pay Rs 20 or 50 !!!
work is done instantly.
life is made easier and comfortable  for the community.
This is the initiative of democratic country and its citizens .
  We had a similar problem.  The road was getting flooded due to a broken pipe line underneath. I informed the water authority and they promptly came and investigated. The line that was broken belonged to the house opposite to ours. Since all in that house were away at work. I paid the worker the money needed to buy the parts and materials needed for the repair work and got the work done .
The funny part is that when the people of that house came back in the evening, I sent the bill to them for the materials bought. She said their pipe is alright and will not pay back the money. I said alright.  It  is for the metro water authority  and for the people of Chennai !!! No depletion of water by leakage .
Few months later, suddenly one day the money was returned saying that when they had some pipe line problem, they called the water authority. The same worker came to repair. He told them that few months earlier, their pipe line was broken . The opposite house people informed the authorities and he only repaired it . and the cost was born by us . She was the convinced. How much our own neighbours trust one another !!!! Can we expect help from them . Even
 for Rs  50 =00 we do not trust one another .

   Our liberty, freedom comes alive when we use it for others also. Suddenly great rapport surge out of caring works . If we ignore others, how can we be friends . Friend in need is a friend in need .
When we offer a helping hand when they are away,  we are good neighbours . An eye on neighbourhood activities will keep our children, men and women safe and  that confidence that someone is watching is a great comfort. But do not be nagging .  Nagging destroys peace and tranquility and then no one can concentrate on anything , neither studies or work. .
   For a broken pipe line , in the capital city, how many people are there for scolding and shouting !!!! This shows the efficiency and co -operation of the capital city inhabitants.
 For scolding,  volunteers appear from everywhere .
Is it freedom to “ scold “ . When will  we adult citizens grow up and behave with maturity caring for the country. They do not like the freedom fighters. Here we do not even volunteer to repair a broken drinking water pipeline . Can we be more patriotic in “everyday life” .
When we break the cars, buses, shops, harm people leading to hospitalization and even death and depraving the welfare of those families  and cause so much damage, we will not spend Rs. 50 =00 for repairing a pipeline !!!!


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PATRIOTISM OF PEOPLE BEFORE AND AFTER ELECETION 2019

From the desk of Mrs. Baby Abraham . . . . . .




    PATRIOTISM  OF  PEOPLE  BEFORE AND  AFTER  ELCETION  2019

1.CAN  our coming together or gathering together for meetings, for worship, for celebrations of festivals  maintain  the “ rest for mind and soul “ and wholeness of physical body “ without mutilation and wounds   and our very life “ preserved within the body so that we can return home as wholesome as we have come to attend the
gathering ??? Now even after worship in church or sabarimala, people are agitated,  made feel  as if their very soul is mutilated by the wicked looks and vulgar gestures even from priests , who lead the way and pave the way for others to follow . What a worship. What political propaganda. Pilgrimage is for sacredness of body , mind and soul. But lack of knowledge of some  has deteriorated that into fighting arena . How can we preserve ourselves and our sacred places.  Sacred mountains and sacred rivers and sacred family relationships  and community harmony .

    Lakhs and lakhs of people come voluntarily to hear the leaders.
Give them something worthwhile knowledge and information to take home . That will give them energy to participate in the developmental programs of the country.  That will make them proud of their country and its great leaders. We are here today because of the  “ sacrificial “ work and selfless  activities of these stalwarts . It is like children neglecting their “ parents . They  selflessly contributed their whole life and time and energy and when their energy cannot sustain them, will  we , everyone of us ,their children be their
“support  and  strength “  to carry on the legacy .

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ASKING FOR HELP X CONTINUE DOING THE GOOD WORK IN YOUR WAY WHEN HELP IS NOT FORTHCOMING

From the desk of Mrs. Baby Abraham . . . . . .






  ASKING FOR HELP

X 
CONTINUE DOING THE GOOD WORK IN YOUR WAY
WHEN HELP IS  NOT FORTHCOMING

In all countries , people look forward to the elected government to fulfil their promised and guaranteed beneficial reforms.  Even when the government dispatch the promised amounts, it never reaches the destination.  Thus when  help is not forthcoming , all that is left is to pursue your own way of accommodating  your own resources and gradually build up  your own fortune. Finally , it is only whistle blowing and shouting only.  Without that  those who concentrate on their work achieves. Those who wait for the whistling fade away. No one asked for whistle blowers in the first place.  Therefore what really matters is your own effort.  The mob come together for some profit. Once they get it , they speak some awful things and disperse .  It is better not to ask for any help from such .  Contentment is a great virtue.  If you have it , whether they whistle or not , clap or not , it is immaterial.
Have you gained anything out of it. ????
Without personal gain , usually nobody  follow others .

 If we  voluntarily help , why ask for remuneration ?
If you are giving voluntarily why ask for recognition ?
Life will go on without  these, most often without interference , most magnificently. With freedom comes , manoeuvring and innovation . Time to think deeply, time to ponder over the pros and cons . Time to think about all
possibilities and  progressive ways.  If someone is looking over your shoulder  even the most patient person will loose the temper. No need to blame them. The ones who caused such “ spying “ or “ peeping over “  or  looking over the shoulder “ are the culprit and should be punished. Even in examinations. or research work or factory functioning , if any outsider do the spy work they are prosecuted .  Now the data on the web is freely available for the whole world,
on directly asking anyone will explain or give information. Then why this spy work. It is all family tradition which the generations do not want to
 leave !!!~!~!~!!!!!!~.  Genes never change !! Direct dealing are not pleasant.
  For some only shoddy work is preferable . That is also in their genes .


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JEALOUSY OF MOTHER JEALOUSY OF GOD JEALOUSY OF HUSBAND OR WIFE

From the desk of Mrs. Baby Abraham . . . . . .



JEALOUSY OF MOTHER
JEALOUSY OF GOD
JEALOUSY OF HUSBAND OR WIFE

Jealousy  does not mean hatred  as enemies or those with different goals and ideals to fight each other, killing each other .  When your child is ill-treated, the parents will stand up for the child to rescue him or her from the vultures.   When other ladies or men misbehave the spouse retaliate because they are intruding the “ sacred marriage covenant and vows “ .  If as parents or spouse do not rise up to the occasion to defend those under your care and relationship, that means you do not care for ” your own ‘ . When Pakistan attack , why is so much hue and cry from Jammu and Kashmere to Kanyakumari ? !!! Why do international outcry rise against such violation ? Why did we instituted the League of Nations  and then UN  when the former was not effective .  Out side the family , all are very generous and compassionate. Within the family, do we care for our children as much as we care for our music system or pen or car ???? If we bring up each generation with excellent value system, there will not be any terrorist in the world . When there is no peace within the family, they yearn for love and stability outside the family and there are parties and organizations with false promises and they are easy prey to them. If only all religious groups stand for the stability of family, there will not be any disobedient children. Teachers can further make them excellent citizens  by instilling not only scientific , mathematical, geography,     etc but also to be good citizens of each country. Then all countries will be proud of their men, women and children, . Each country will  be proud of their factories, educational institutions, hospitals, agriculture, religious groups etc. This will prompt all countries more to be concentrated on
business dealings, exchange programs and developmental programs.  Only debt, poverty,  instigate  rivalry and hatred .  The moment you are self sufficient, no one can tempt you to bribery if you have the will power to say no to temptations. It is difficult. But let us say no to it . In the long run , we will have peace of mind .
No wonder all governments are doing their best to bring the per capita income to a comfortable level.
When ever we bring in spirituality and religion  into politics ,it causes strife because belief is not something we play with. Let each keep their belief system as long as it does not produce divorced people, orphaned children and parents,  .  Otherwise the divorcee and her children will be a burden to society. Since their own family will not “ reclaim or take back “ after the “ handling and use and misuse by the husband and his family “ , they become totally “ misfits “ in society and the children and women can be “ easy prey “ to vultures . The “ jealous protection “ is lacking here. It is just a “ scene “ in the drama of life for some .
Let us put ourselves in their place and deal with each family as a unit and keep away from meddling with it. Think of all the dreams of men and women before marriage .  Why meddle with families. Look for free men and women. If all the families are contented and at peace, the country is at rest . Children are safe .


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