THE BURDEN OF PROMISES

From the desk of Mrs. Baby Abraham . . . . . .

  THE BURDEN OF PROMISES

Promises once made , is a great responsibility, if you take them really seriously,   until you fulfil them all eyes are watching , specially when it is declared publicly.  Promises and vows at marriage if taken seriously, all houses would have been “ little paradise “ . When we take each family , we encounter different types of paradise, heaven, hell  and sometimes even worse than all these .  Usually this is brought by the people in the house. The most dear ones . Occasionally a troupe of outsiders march in with all vulgarity which they profess to be the best language and behaviour they know of . They twist every word , every action even giving a cup of coffee or a glass of water .

 “ Childish mother in law “ and “ matured young daughter in law “ ,  even father – daughter or father in law and daughter in  law or brother in law … the list goes on . Then the “ transforming and moulding and modelling  by religious group add their share  .

If the election manifesto keep “ reasonable promises “ taking into consideration the economic , political , religious scenario prevailing in the country , then consequent consequences than can ensue if certain “ promises “ are fulfilled at the expense of others , can be averted . Otherwise  scenes of “ India – Pakistan  partition “ scenario will burst forth . We must prevent it at all cost . We have seen it once and endured it . We should not  create another one with our promises. Promise only what you can deliver  and then

deliver “ much more that what was promised “ .  As we undertake any job , at each step , new vistas of advanced developmental opportunities open up before our eyes which we can incorporate into the existing ones without much additional cost .The country and the people will marvel at it  . THEN  each and every Indian will shout

 out “ JAI HIND “  not wailing and weeping and agonised mobs .

Demolition  effects   similar to demonetisation  effects, are still “ raw and scathing “ in our mind .

Riot is like opening a brimming dam . No one can control it till they are 

satisfied !!!  

If we promise the children that we will be back home at 6 or  7

In the evening and  if we reach by 4 or 5 o clock , little children will jump for joy.  If too late , they may even sleep off disappointed  after the long wait. When  government start building programs or financial assistance programs and if the completion is on time as  promised and  have  been delivered on time or prior to the delivery date , the people are enthusiastic and ecstatic about the government  and the department  When we  are given a promise , we trust them and their promise . If is  too delayed the enjoyment  and the urge  to celebrate is  dampened and we just “ endure “ the inaugural  function .       

         At the time of Independence, the government promised all religious communities  who had lost their houses and possession to relocate them and re establish them as early as possible  .             Even in that tumultuous period , they did it !!!!           After the partition , India government did the wonderful job of establishing and re establishing all the displaced people within India as well as people from Pakistan. Now when we acquire land for construction  of high ways and other projects, are the displaced people  provided with alternative   housing . Compared o the 1947 condition, we have peaceful atmosphere , more than enough finance and building

resources , man power and technology. Within an year multi storied buildings come up  !. We can provide these people with houses if we desire so . The scenario at the time of partition and independence is  so different . At present there are so many construction which are completed in very short time . 2  or 3 percent of the lakh crore projects  funding can  be utilised for the displaced people .  Still  compared to their loss , it is nothing .

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DREAMS AND DREAMING

From the desk of Mrs. Baby Abraham . . . . . .

    DREAMS   AND   DREAMING

Dreams comes in our sleep and you may or may not remember what the dreams was when you wake up .

 Dreaming  is a voluntary , self manufactured and programmed  version of what we aspire to accomplish  in life, in business, in holidaying ,  in studies or research I This is actually the blue print of our life’s achievement upon which we structure our life style  . It is for accomplishment not to laugh about and forge . Without dreaming and planning , we never enter into construction work or studies or employment.

Politicians and ministers and parties put into their manifesto their dreams and goals  for the country .

 Every one build their life on their dreams as the foundation .

There are good dreaming process, there are terrorist dreaming projects, there are scientific dreaming projects etc .  In fact all achievement is the result of execution of their dreaming  process.  Follow your good blue pint, you reach great heights . Those dreams never fade away. Those remain as memorials forever .

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BEHAVIOUR OF COMPUTER AND BEHAVIOUR OF PEOPLE

From the desk of Mrs. Baby Abraham . . . . . .

   BEHAVIOUR OF COMPUTER AND BEHAVIOUR  OF PEOPLE

Computer produce what information we pout into them. They can process it depending  on the amount of information fed into them. They can add , subtract, divide, multiply  and produce the result correct or wrong depending on the substance we gave them . It cannot differentiate between good and bad, correct or wrong or faulty .

We are sensible . We know how to select what is beneficial to us and what is harmful. Knowingly if we select what is not good and beneficial, something is defective in our personality .  Only we can rectify it because  we have the will power to do so if we are determined . That is how we learn difficult subjects in school and colleges and we have reached space. But if we keep ourselves constantly aware of the ill effects of certain procedures, we should refrain from them . That is also because of our will power . We have the divine nature and we say “ no “ to what is not beneficial . We proceed on wickedness when we are feeble to say “ no “ to these non beneficial things . commonsense is so important and that is also the product of will power . In short that is “ self control “ . The power to choose .  The power to say “ yes “ when  we are positive is also our will power. This is seen in all parliamentary and senate  meetings, when what is good for the country and its people are opposed just to satisfy their ego .

But when they come on inter national peace treaties, and trade relationships, how great is the “ give and take “  policies. Same things happens within family also . Outside the family , and inside family how the behavior changes for children as well as for adults !!

What causes this ? The appreciation we receive or do not receive, the criticism we receive or do not receive, the importance of

the “ audience “  the accountability and the “ sense of

accountability  “ .

   Just as the computer cannot correct what is fed into them by itself

but we have to alter the data correctly, the parent, teachers and religious leaders  have to be constantly vigilant on what we put into the minds of people. Yet because of the “ free ill “ we can overcome any bad doctrine or philosophy and  and make determined effort to re codify our system on the most valuable values of life for the benefit of ourselves and for our country.  One pulwama, one Thushara , one Kevin , one, one , one ,one so many “ ones “ make the society stink . One plastic cover here ,one plastic cover there , one….it continues and the consequences are so detrimental.   Crores of garbage heaps all over India make India stink on each road and side roads  and main roads  and emit fumes and gases even from  “ worshipping places in Himalayas !!! “ .

How will we prevent  it ?

 Smoke from religious sites 'melting Himalayan glaciers' More

www.indiatvnews.com  .

Can we prevent it ? But who can do it  ?

Unlike computers , we can , we can , we can .

We can logically accept and store relevant information and we can  process them intelligently and wisely. Let us do this processing part of behavior in our lives  just as carefully as we feed information and programming the computer. If our programming can bring 100 % valid and  correct results, why do not we use it in our human relationship and family relationship , parental care   etc .  If any mistake occurs in the computer analysis , there is out cry all over the world . But what is happening in our families .

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GOLDEN TEMPLE

From the desk of Mrs. Baby Abraham . . . . . .

   

GOLDEN TEMPLE AND

INDIRA GANDHI’ S ASSASSINATION   !

In olden times people even kings  have hidden in temples  for safety from enemies. But never have anyone heaped up ammunition in worshipping places . Whatever  be the situation they respected the sacredness of worshipping places irrespective of all adversities .  Can we imagine  Vatican to be filled with ammunition. No , nobody ever dream of it .  Will any one do the same thing in Sabarimala or Thirumala temples . No one will allow that .

Reason

Do we keep fire works  in our houses ? We never store up even fire works in house or other buildings .   Match boxes are kept out of reach of

children .The danger of getting them catch fire and demolishing the place where it  is stored keeps us vigilant about its presence even during

Deepavali and Christmas .. It is a wonder that even during the very careful handling of our brave soldiers   , no damage was done to the beautiful temple . Any accidental firing from the army or from the terrorists would have produced the same result .  We should really thank Indira Gandhi and our brave soldiers for protecting this magnificent temple still standing majestically . Terrorist , when their enthusiasm ad zeal is beyond limit forget the safety of anything or anyone . Otherwise they would never have become terrorist .

Still for all her care and love for the people of that state ,  what price she had to pay .  Misplaced religious fervour and  zeal bring out results which do not tally with their beliefs .

Whose responsibility is it  .

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