From the desk of Mrs. Baby Abraham
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FREEDOM AND LIBERTY
When you are a bachelor or spinister , all the time is yours, all the resources are yours, all your actions are for your pleasure.
When you marry, you have to take into consideration, the comforts and needs of your spouse. When you have one child, we have to program everything for all three members. When there are two children, even the holiday planning depends on the convenient time of all four persons. When we are in a neighbourhood, we have to take into consideration the welfare of our neighbours . When we build a house, we first enquire who are the neighbours. If the neighbourhood is good , we are at peace . Our children will be safe. Our property will be safe. We choose our locality for safety's sake.
Since we cannot change our neighbouring countries, our b orders with neighbouring states, how diligent we should be with all our dealings, lest misunderstanding and rivalry will precipitate, and we have to live with it all through our life.
Therefore true liberty and freedom is disciplining ourselves ,controlling ourselves and our circumstances and actions, so that we do not hurt others. Then naturally they will be our friends and well wishers.
Imposed restriction is freedom at the mercy of others. Others decide what we should do, when we should do, how we should do. Always restraining ourselves is commendable. True love for ourselves and for others prompt us to be in harmony with others. If we love ourselves, our body, our family, our work, our nation, we will adhere to every means to keep all relations and activities clean and praise worthy, so that we can be proud of them, and they can be proud of us !!! But if we do not consider ourselves in high esteem, we treat others in that manner, which will be difficult for them to accept.
What quality is within us , will just overflow from our mouth, our attitude, our actions and our behaviour !!! For that we need not think twice. That comes to them naturally and they cannot restrain themselves. How can we help them ?
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FREEDOM AND LIBERTY
When you are a bachelor or spinister , all the time is yours, all the resources are yours, all your actions are for your pleasure.
When you marry, you have to take into consideration, the comforts and needs of your spouse. When you have one child, we have to program everything for all three members. When there are two children, even the holiday planning depends on the convenient time of all four persons. When we are in a neighbourhood, we have to take into consideration the welfare of our neighbours . When we build a house, we first enquire who are the neighbours. If the neighbourhood is good , we are at peace . Our children will be safe. Our property will be safe. We choose our locality for safety's sake.
Since we cannot change our neighbouring countries, our b orders with neighbouring states, how diligent we should be with all our dealings, lest misunderstanding and rivalry will precipitate, and we have to live with it all through our life.
Therefore true liberty and freedom is disciplining ourselves ,controlling ourselves and our circumstances and actions, so that we do not hurt others. Then naturally they will be our friends and well wishers.
Imposed restriction is freedom at the mercy of others. Others decide what we should do, when we should do, how we should do. Always restraining ourselves is commendable. True love for ourselves and for others prompt us to be in harmony with others. If we love ourselves, our body, our family, our work, our nation, we will adhere to every means to keep all relations and activities clean and praise worthy, so that we can be proud of them, and they can be proud of us !!! But if we do not consider ourselves in high esteem, we treat others in that manner, which will be difficult for them to accept.
What quality is within us , will just overflow from our mouth, our attitude, our actions and our behaviour !!! For that we need not think twice. That comes to them naturally and they cannot restrain themselves. How can we help them ?
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